Mother's Day Thoughts

You know, there’s this one question that always pops up when Mother’s Day approaches: “What do you want?” And let me tell you, I’ve always found it to be a loaded question, for both the giver and the receiver. I mean, can we really sum up our love and appreciation for our moms in just one day and with a single gift? It’s like trying to fit a whole universe into a tiny box. Impossible, right?

My Mother

But hey, let me take a moment to gush about my incredible mom. Seriously, she’s the absolute best! If you’ve had the privilege of knowing her, you’d totally agree. She’s not just good—she’s the best, hands down.

As a young mother, life threw her a curveball. She became a widow and suddenly had to navigate the wild ride of raising three energetic girls all on her own. And you know what? She rocked it! Like, seriously, she deserves a standing ovation for her incredible parenting skills.

I can’t even begin to express how amazing she is. The love and care she poured into us are beyond words. It’s like this invisible force that wraps around our hearts and makes us feel safe and loved. We’re all crazy about her, no doubt about it.

So, my dear mom, on this special day and every other day, know that we adore you to the moon and back. No gift can ever capture the depth of our love and gratitude. Instead, we’ll keep showering you with affection, laughter, and unforgettable memories. You’re the queen of our hearts, and we’ll forever cherish the incredible job you did raising us. We love you, Mom, more than words can say.

Proverbs 31: 28-29 “Her children arise and call her blessed; ….Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all.”

Celebrating Mother’s Day

Jonathan has always been a great model for our children in making Mother’s Day special. He not only honors me in the presence of our children, instilling in them the significance of cherishing their mother, but he extends the same sentiment to my own mother and his late mother, despite the veil of sadness that clouds his own day. It’s a delicate balance for him, showcasing joy while respectfully acknowledging the void left by his mother’s absence.

As time has passed and our children have grown older, my personal expectations for Mother’s Day have evolved. As empty nesters, we have built-in days to celebrate. We have our anniversaries, those cherished “dateaversaries,” and even ordinary Saturdays that turn into a blog post. While I love that he continues to make Mother’s Day special, I love that he works so hard behind the scenes to make it special for all of the mothers.

What truly makes my Moma heart happy is the presence of our children. Now living in different cities, their return home becomes the most precious gift of all. The distance that separates us has only deepened the value of their company. Simply having them home becomes an unparalleled joy that surpasses any material offering.

So, for Mother’s Day, I count my blessings, cherishing the love and wisdom that flows through the generations of our family. I embrace the time together, knowing that the love we share will bridge any physical distance. For in the end, it is the presence, the love, and the memories we create together that truly make Mother’s Day an event and memories of cherished time together.

This year I have a new title of Mother-In-Law. It’s still the craziest thing to think I’ve reached the stage of life where I’m now the MIL, but here I am. I’m here for it though, and all the wonderful things that bring two families together. Your relationship with your in-laws is what you make it and I know I’m here to make the most of all of my stages.